Yup…he’s gone…maybe it’s the main reason i didn’t update the blog for so long. It’s very ironic dat the last time i updated my blog was the last time i spoke to him directly (ermh…via phone actually…). It’s so sad dat though it was the last time i heard his voice lively, i couldn’t even hear it clearly. It’s the effect of his lung cancer. The right side of his body was in pain.

Well, God is amazing as always. Remember when i made a promise to know him more if he could be recovered? (see my previous blog). It’s really a previledge for me dat i could understand his way of thinking, act, etc when he was not around anymore. It isnt me only who could feel it, most of my mom’s big family members were.

My grandpa was a proud man who acknowledge the bound of family and friendship more than anything. Some of the siblings of my mom (included me) knew dat my grandpa had 3 "brothers" whom he met at the last 10years of his life. Well, the oldest brother or the da ge had passed away 5 years earlier. Now, my grandpa as the second brother a.k.a lao-er passed away also.

I knew ’bout this fact when my grandpa visited me in Beijing in April 2000. The 4 brother was still complete. Elyna, my bestfren there (til now actually) and I joined the tour group for a day. We visited the great wall, Ming Tomb, ate Peking Duck and watched the classic acrobatic show at San Li Tun area.